A lifelong covenant of love and fidelity between a man and a woman, reflecting the union between Christ and the Church, graced to nurture family and faith.
Sacraments

Matrimony

A lifelong covenant of love and fidelity between a man and a woman, reflecting the union between Christ and the Church, graced to nurture family and faith.
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A lifelong covenant of love and fidelity between a man and a woman, reflecting the union between Christ and the Church, graced to nurture family and faith.

Introduction to Matrimony

Matrimony, or marriage, is a sacred covenant within the Catholic Church that reflects the union of Christ and His Church. It is a sacrament of love and commitment between a man and a woman, binding them together for life.

What is Matrimony?

The Sacrament of Matrimony is a public sign that one gives oneself totally to another person. It is also a public statement about God: the loving union of a man and a woman speaks of family values and also God's values. This union is by its nature ordered toward the good of the spouses and the procreation and education of offspring.

The Celebration of Matrimony

A Catholic wedding typically takes place during a Mass and includes several key moments: the exchange of vows, the nuptial blessing, and the giving and receiving of rings. The couple administers the sacrament to each other by their mutual consent to marry, which the priest or deacon witnesses.

The Role of the Couple

In the Sacrament of Matrimony, the man and woman pledge to love and honor each other for life. They promise to be faithful in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, and to be open to the gift of children, reflecting God’s plan for their union.

The Grace of the Sacrament

Matrimony gives spouses the grace to love each other with the love with which Christ has loved His Church. The grace of the sacrament perfects the couple's human love, strengthens their indissoluble unity, and sanctifies them on the way to eternal life.

The Domestic Church

The family born from a sacramental marriage is often referred to as the "domestic church." It is the first school of Christian life and a church in miniature. In it, parents should, by their word and example, be the first preachers of the faith to their children.

Living Out Matrimony

Married life is a journey that involves joy and challenges. The couple is called to grow together in love and holiness, supporting each other and reflecting God's steadfast love in their commitment to one another.

Conclusion

The Sacrament of Matrimony is a vocation to holiness and service within the couple's own relationship and in their family. It is a sign of unity, fidelity, and the nurturing love that fosters life and community, celebrated between a man and a woman as instituted by God and affirmed by Church teachings.

Sacred Scripture begins with the creation and union of man and woman and ends with "the wedding feast of the Lamb" (Rev 19:7, 9). Scripture often refers to marriage, its origin and purpose, the meaning God gave to it, and its renewal in the covenant made by Jesus with his Church.  Man and woman were created for each other.

By their marriage, the couple witnesses Christ's spousal love for the Church. One of the Nuptial Blessings in the liturgical celebration of marriage refers to this in saying, "Father, you have made the union of man and wife so holy a mystery that it symbolizes the marriage of Christ and his Church."

The Sacrament of Marriage is a covenant, which is more than a contract. Covenant always expresses a relationship between persons. The marriage covenant refers to the relationship between the husband and wife, a permanent union of persons capable of knowing and loving each other and God. The celebration of marriage is also a liturgical act, appropriately held in a public liturgy at church. Catholics are urged to celebrate their marriage within the Eucharistic Liturgy (USCCB, 2024).

Make your first appointment

Please make an appointment with the priest or deacon by contacting the parish office through phone call or email prior to setting the date, at least 6 months in advance.

The priest will walk you through next steps.  

Looking to have your marriage convalidated? 

If you have received your sacraments, but were not married in a Catholic Church, we would love to convalidate your marriage! Convalidation is a formal means of recognizing your marriage as a sacrament within the Church.

Please reach out to the parish office for more information.

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